| 1. | At this point in my life , i have come to realize that , if i really care for my wife , i have to seek more wisdom and love . if i fail to gain wisdom , i may lead her astray , to a desolate life . if i fail to gain love , i may hurt her because of my imperfect personality
我了解到如果我真正爱我的太太，就必须藉由修行发展更多的智慧及爱心，因为如果我智慧不够的话，可能会将整个婚姻关系带领到不正确的方向，走入生命中的沙漠里如果我的爱心不够，也许会因为自己不完美的个性而伤害她。 |
